i'm supposed to blog about the disturbing things i saw on my friend's fb... here goes....

one fine day, we were jia zhua-ing at a coffee house and the topic abt BGR just came out onto the table (as usual). and so, the guy started talking about how people should be willing to make sacrifices should they commit in a relationship. i chose to disagree.

i told him this, a committment should not come in the form of sacrifices.or at least, one shouldnt feel that he/she is making sacrifices.

if im in a bgr, i will not see spending time with him as a sacrifice. instead, i'll thank him for allowing me to spend time with him.

i'll quote what he wrote on his fb wall that night:

"is it real that when you are really in love with another person... you will thank the person for allowing you to spend time with him or her??"

somehow or rather, i felt disturbed by his actions actually. it may or may not be a passing remark on my part. but i seriously think he should listen to what i've said with a pinch of salt.

=/